{"id":902,"date":"2008-10-28T17:21:54","date_gmt":"2008-10-28T17:21:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/2008\/10\/28\/clingy-toddler\/"},"modified":"2008-10-28T17:30:53","modified_gmt":"2008-10-28T17:30:53","slug":"clingy-toddler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/2008\/10\/28\/clingy-toddler\/","title":{"rendered":"Clingy toddler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It has come to my attention that I have a clingy toddler. Sigh. I briefly read about this in passing and where I thought Sienna was clingy before, I didn&#8217;t know nothing! I don&#8217;t mean to dwell so much on the down side of parenthood but I&#8217;m just trying to document everything we go through, including the downs (which really are not that many, <em>keep fingers crossed!<\/em>) There were signs of progress as far as her cold was concerned. Last night was the first night since Wednesday that she slept through the night. Not a peep out of her. Yves even went in to check on her before he left for the airport and she received him well. There was a bit of whining this morning because she wanted to watch tv. Since this was the first day on my very own, I decided to pick my battles and this one I wasn&#8217;t even going to battle. I let her watch Sesame Street. I figured I would do things backwards so took a shower and had some computer time. It was even looking good at breakfast where she ate some blueberries and half of a banana. Then it started. The constant crying, the whining, the arms up to be lifted. At first I gave in but she was even struggling with me in my arms. I didn&#8217;t understand. I broke down. I tried to rationally explain to her that we had to help each other out. I was briefly able to google &#8216;clingy toddler&#8217; and discovered that the constant crying and wanting to be held by only mommy and not wanting to be 2 feet away was normal. Some moms mentioned they couldn&#8217;t even cook dinner because their toddler just wanted to constantly hang on to them. Sigh. Normal. Of course some toddlers don&#8217;t even go through this stage. And some have it full force. That is my world. Some useful links: the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.minti.com\/parenting-advice\/5131\/dealing-with-my-clingy-toddler\/\" target=\"_blank\">short version<\/a> of what the do and the <a href=\"http:\/\/books.google.com\/books?id=5bNaOrcauGoC&amp;pg=PA117&amp;dq=clingy+toddler#PPA117,M1\" target=\"_blank\">longer version<\/a>. She showed signs of clinginess before and it didn&#8217;t really last long, not like this. I can&#8217;t help but wonder if I pushed it over the edge because she was sick and I catered to her. I just have to deal with this. One hour at a time, one day at a time. Wish me luck!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It has come to my attention that I have a clingy toddler. Sigh. I briefly read about this in passing and where I thought Sienna was clingy before, I didn&#8217;t know nothing! I don&#8217;t mean to dwell so much on the down side of parenthood but I&#8217;m just trying to document everything we go through, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[15,4,13,5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/902"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=902"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/902\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=902"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=902"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thebunnylog.com\/journal\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=902"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}